Rebuild families

starting with the families in the community  and showing young kids that there is a better future 

No relationship is perfect, and that includes the family. There are times when family feuds drag on for years without getting fixed. It hurts more to know that you can’t speak to someone whom you’ve known all your life because of a disagreement in the past. You may cut ties with them, but they’ll always be a part of you. If you’re given the opportunity to rebuild those relationships, wouldn’t you grab on to it? If you’re ready to take a step closer to reconciliation

1. Take responsibility Once you’ve figured out your contribution to the feud. Be responsible enough to admit your mistakes. Keep it in mind and add it on your list of things to change and improve about yourself. Do your best not to do it again to the best of your ability. And then, be forgiving. Forgive the person and forgive yourself. Don’t hold on to the bitterness or it’ll eat you up inside. Also, consider the rest of the family who had to stand in between and receive a share of the stress.

See it from a different perspective Anger can blind a person. It’s an overwhelming feeling that can prevent you from thinking rationally and prevent you from considering another person’s perspective. But there’s always two sides of the same coin. Try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes

1. Take small steps Do make an effort to reach out and communicate. Maybe send cards or a casual “hi” on social media. But don’t overdo it. You have to test the waters first. Your estranged sibling or spouse may still be cradling feelings of bitterness. Any gesture of closeness might be taken as being insensitive. Keep the distance but slowly, through small talk, reconnect broken bridges.

early childhood 

The building stage of a child’s life solving the differences in each others family find a metro groundings  for everyone comes in